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I have the Nikon D60. On the rare occasion that I pull out my P&S, I wish I'd used the D60. The quality of a DSLR is so much crisper. The quick shutter helps SO much- I have a busy 3 year old boy.
Lenses- I have the standard VR 18-55. For most shots, it's what I use. However, I'm really falling in love with what I can do (trying to be more artistic with photos) using my 55-200 (also VR). I would love to get something that is more like both lenses in one, but they're expensive. At Disney, I use the 18-55 most of the time, the bigger lens at AK for the safari.
Good luck and have fun!
Oh, one thing I suggest is buying a padded strap. Makes a huge difference on your neck all day!