Had to go thru IVF, but thankfully I only had to do it 3 times to get all three daughters. 1st one didn't work but each one after that resulted in my oldest DD (7) and the twins A lot of hard work, but soo rewarding! They're 3 now and potty trained (NO MORE DIAPERS YEAH)so it's alot eaisier! But that 1st year was a little hectic. I wish you lots of luck with your adoption.